About The Author

I am a 25 year old sexpert, and yes I made that word up. I believe that knowledge is power especially when it comes to sex,and especially as women. I am an avid supporter of women and I believe that women do not need to use sex to feel empowered.  I am proud to say that I am a Christ follower.  Come see a man, who told me everything I ever did,Could this be the Christ? (John 4:29,NIV) and still wanted me and loved me.  If you are searching for reasons why you have a gaping hole in your chest but are wanted by so many men (or not wanted), I hope this blog will give you closure.

I have a newly published book,  Casual Sex is for the Shallow  available only on Amazon.

Feel free to contact me with any questions, prayer requests or if you just need someone to chat with @ blondecoffee89@gmail.com.

25 thoughts on “About The Author”

  1. I’m so happy to find out you believe in God…I don’t wanna say Christian because it doesn’t mean anything as a word, people are born Christian but do not practice or believe so I want to use the word Believer..or someone with Faith…I don’t know, anyway, I am really enjoying your blog and I feel that you’re very courageous and brave to write with such honesty, as I’ve said before, but I really mean it! I was raised a Christian but didn’t really believe for the longest time, but recently I have gotten more and more into reading the Bible and developing a personal relationship with God, and it really is bringing about peace in my heart….Thank you for your words and I hope you stay blessed xxx

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    1. Thank you!! God bless you too. I refer to myself as a follower of Christ, or Believer lol 🙂 really wanted this blog to be an inspiration to all women. For the longest time I was away from Christ too, but in Him now I have found peace. Im here for support if you need me. 🙂

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  3. I love that you say, “Women do not need to use sex to feel empowered”. How very true this! Some women search the world high and low, chasing, for love, man after man when what they to do is stop and focus on the fact that a living breathing man, suffed and died for them because he loved them so greatly. Then he came back for them because he loved them so much more that he couldn’t stay away. That man’s name is Jesus and He’s madly in love with them, still, today. Love your site and look forward to getting to know you.

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    1. Thank you so much. I really appreciate the support. I started searching at young age, and I can say that it was a very painful journey, I was that lost sheep, I was the woman at the well, and one day it finally clicked for me that Jesus is the only man that can satisfy me. Despite all that I have been through I have confidence, comfort and peace knowing that Jesus loves even me and I just want women to feel that love, because I thought no man could ever love a woman like me.Thanks again I needed the encouragement. I look forward to getting to know you too. God bless.

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  4. Hi, i came by your blog by chance (googling for articles) and read some articles of yours.
    I want to share a resource for you for your personal growth ( http://sfhelp.org/site/intro.htm )
    you may find that a lot of ‘wounds’ you actually inherit from your family without realizing it! 🙂
    Check out those articles on the ‘personality-parts’ that are created from our past experiences in life.
    Hope you will have an ‘aha’ moment and everything will be clear and connect and understand why you acted that way (it wasn’t you, it was a mind-pattern, a false-self)
    Good luck on your personal journey 🙂
    Great articles.

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  9. My friend I agree with so much here. I amassed a collection of pics on pinterest called she kills porn. Men standing up for women. Women standing up for themselves. I have lived on both sides of this misogynistic coin. I am glad you commented on my blog so I can follow yours. God bless….

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