What is a slutty slushy? A slutty slushy is all the intimate details of your sexual history mixed together. And it is most often served after a heated argument. It might feel refreshing to you but it is not appreciated by the person it gets dumped on because it is messy. Don’t drench the guy you are newly dating with all the sticky details of your sexual history.
One of the biggest no-no’s when engaging in casual sex, any causal relationship or with the intention of starting a relationship is dumping the the sticky slutty details of your past on the guy you are trying to date.
Most men encourage this confessional. They want to know all about your bedroom business. They may ask you questions like this:
How many men have you had sex with?
Have you had anal sex?
Have you had a threesome?
When was the first time you had sex?
Have you ever had a one night stand?
And so on and so forth. If you are looking for a relationship I would advise not answering the above questions. That same guy will use the information that he eagerly asked for against you.
Telling the guy you are interested in dating about all the free sex you gave away is not going to make him want you, he will probably want you less. Especially when you start boohooing about all the sex you gave away without asking for a commitment . He will probably do to you what you so vividly described to him.
Ask yourself this, why shouldn’t he get what you gave to everyone else without a commitment? If it’s being offered so freely why should he say no?
Protect yourself by keeping those not so pleasant details about your sexual past to yourself.This way if things don’t work out you will not feel as vulnerable.